Wednesday, January 31, 2007

生日快樂 - the movie


http://www.happybirthdaymovie.hk/

A love story sort of movie from Hong Kong. It was a long wait for this kind of topic other than theme about trials or undercover...

Overall: Not too bad, a bit slow in pace, and ended with a Korean taste...

In general: Starting with a wrong concept of relationship from the girl side "adjustment", turns up to be a long struggle and wrong expectations at the end...









2 things to concern:
1) 花心 (not concentrated)
There were arguments on how Nam behaved: 1) in born or 2) encouraged by the girl Mi.
My conclusion is both..! ^_^

2) 自信心 (Self-confidence)
Mi (the girl) was still affected by the shadow (past experience of being abandoned by mom), with the attitude of the Nam turned out that she chose not to commit on the relationship by leaving it open for Nam ('adjustment' from partner to good friends). Surely, the relationship as a 'very good friend' will lead to a high possibility of separation in the future when they find out another person who would commit.

This kind of foolish: by telling your love one that you are only very good friend who in reality is the one you really want to commit with him/her, would keep repeating again and again people life ba..?!

The comment made by Louis Koo in the official homepage would be interesting to read as well..!

A lesson to learn as always.

Ending: I prefer honesty..!

ps. next time K song: 有多少愛可以重來 - 主唱 黃仲崑 曲︰黃卓穎 詞︰何厚華 編︰鮑比達

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Anonymous Anonymous said...

絕對同意你指出小南的用情不專及小米的自信不足導致兩人感情路上拖拖拉拉, 相信這樣的人生週而復始的發生在你、我、他身上。可惜又有誰會從中得到領悟與啟發呢?
我喜愛看寫實題材的戲、劇,因為只需花個多小時投入別人的故事中從而獲得不同閱歷的概念。除了愛看戲劇外還愛討論,我是藉著溝通而獲得力量的人,溝通使我個人得到成長、親情增進、友誼延續。我想世上沒有完完全全心神一致的人(俗語說:生仔唔知仔心肝),即使二人一體共處數十載相敬如賓的恩愛夫妻也好,他們也有各自的思想意見,只是他們懂得包容、欣賞、溝通、堅持等當中涉及的因素實在不能盡錄,雙方不斷付出努力、真心和誠意來維繫這份良好的關係。
除了童年時被拋棄的因素外最為普遍的是傳統中國思想「重男輕女」亦是影響女孩自信心的一大因素,「知易行難」這道理人所共知倘若他倆能及早共同面對或尋求幫助,將存在的問題解決便不會形成眾人的痛苦----小南、小米、小B(暗戀小米卻是小南的老友、痛愛女兒的父親、臨時情人郭善妮飾)。當中令我看得一道咬牙切齒的情節是小南藉口出差遠赴東京與小米共聚,當他面對日藉同學不其然流露出妒意的真性情,及至他們表演親暱的行為態度時,心想這一對相愛得如此深仍自稱「好朋友」,在久別重逢後應該更珍惜對方,如我所料小南向小米提出回港共同發展的要求,結果也是如期被小米拒絕了。為何令我如此氣憤因為小南清楚指出小米拒絕他的理由,卻單單直斥她只活在童年陰影中影響他倆的發展機會。與此同時我為他們流下第一串眼淚,婉惜小南的幼稚小米的軟弱,還不期然默禱起來好讓父神引領他倆「走出迷戀、活出激情」。
另一個論題當然放在結局之上,即使能改變劇情小南與小米共同回港發展,但他倆又可會結婚呢?因為當小南知道自己患上重病,可能最終還是會瞞騙小米獨自尋求醫冶及面對死亡嗎?當晚我跟同行的女友持相反意見,她附和小南的做法認為給愛侶留下最好的面容或回憶遠勝於讓對方陪同渡過僅餘的生命。我卻認為真愛是不會拘泥於美觀的外表,當然外觀是互相吸引的首個因素,但哪份流於表面的感覺乃是好感還未稱得上愛。何況人的記憶系統是會自動調節的,只要感情昇華至“至死不渝”的愛,留給至愛的回憶必然只有雙方最美麗最快樂最感動的時刻,哪管離開前受盡病魔煎熬的痛苦,只要憑藉身旁至愛給予的支持而竭力對抗頑疾。即使面對目送至愛離逝的悲痛,也遠不及發覺自己被深愛的人瞞騙而錯失彼此相對的最後時刻而愧疚終身。 你呢對結局有何看法?
你的普通話進展如何? 幾時再開始練習中文輸入法?? 因為看你的Blog時總是欠了一份情感.

11:34 PM  
Blogger 百恩木子 said...

我支持担诚,困难一起面对,經歷之後無悔!

中文打字加油中,拼音河简易也共用....!
希望快一些会打...! ^_^

5:55 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

很好吖, 雖然只是簡簡單單幾句回應, 或許是母語的關係閱讀起來分外領受似的, 而且很高興我們的意見頗一致呢^8^...支持你啊!! 努力練習吧, 我亦希望日後能用通順的英文跟你溝通, 這樣才算雙向痳@v@

唔知按錯了甚麼制, 竟然失去了身份變了匿名添:p
就當是猜謎遊戲吧, 你估我是誰

12:59 AM  

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